1) Perversions
Neatly designed, the site is easy to use and makes searching for potential matches hassle-free. In fact, it’s so organized that reviewers claim it’s what leads to the site’s high matchmaking rate. Perversions.com also offers users access to private cam rooms, chat rooms, community blogs, and more. Users can join for free but in order to access all the site has to offer, you’ll need to upgrade your membership to a Silver or Gold plan.
Silver members can view and contact members, show up in searches (after Gold tier members and before free members), contact new members, unlimited access to live and recorded videos and 24/7 phone support.
- 3-day trial: $1.95
- 1-month membership: $29.95/month
- 3-month membership: $19.98/month
Gold members will have access to all new content first, appear in search results before Silver and free members, receive full access to the Gold Room (which includes erotic photos, movies, downloadable videos, erotic stories, and live webcam shows).
- 1-month membership: $34.95/month
- 3-month membership: $23.32/month
- 12-month membership: $12.50/month
2) Alt.com
Alt.com (apart of the FriendFinder Network) hosts a platform for masters or mistresses of BDSM and people looking to practice erotic bondage. Members are able to connect with other users in chat rooms, webcam sessions, and through private messaging. Joining is free, but if you want to access everything the site has to offer you will need to upgrade your membership to a Silver or Gold plan.
Silver members can view and contact members, show up in searches (after Gold tier members and before free members), contact new members, access members photos and video introductions, and 24/7 phone support.
- 1-month trial: $19.95
- 3-month membership: $11.99/month
- 12-month membership: $8.95/month
Gold members will have access to all new content first, appear in search results before Silver and free members, receive unlimited access to members photos and screen names, movies, downloadable videos, erotic stories, blogs, groups, magazine stories, and live webcam shows.
- 1-month membership: $29.95/month
- 3-month membership: $14.99/month
- 12-month membership: $8.95/month
3) Bondage.com
Founded in 2004, this BDSM dating website is mobile-friendly but has no app (yet). Its matching algorithm is GPS-based and designed to show you profiles of the top members in your region. But what sets the site apart from the rest is that when users sign up they can choose to upload a profile video instead of a static photo. Users can also choose to sign up with Facebook. Joining is free but in order to send gifts and come up as a priority in search results, you’ll need to upgrade to a paid membership.
- 1-month membership: $22.71/month
- 3-month membership: $17.03/month
- 6-month membership: $13.62/month
4) BDSMDateLink
If you’re interested in more than just BDSM and want a site to use a site that supports that, you should consider BDSMDateLink.com. Not only is the site’s membership base fairly large, but it allows paid users to search for potential matches by keyword, personality, and distance, among other detailed search options.
Signing up is free, but if you want to see more than a photo and bio in your search results (or just search more specifically) you’ll have to upgrade your membership to the Unlimited plan.
- 1-month membership: $29.86/month
- 3-month membership: $16.57/month
- 12-month membership: $8.27/month
5) FetLife.com
Easily the most popular BDSM dating website, FetLife is your place to go to not only find hot dates but for information on local munches, and ways connect with other members of the kink community.
Most of FetLife’s content is available with a free membership, but if you’d like to view member videos and other lengthy content, you’ll need to upgrade.
- 6-month membership: $30
- 12-month membership: $60
- 2-year membership: $120
- Lifetime membership: $240